We all live
in glass houses,
And should
never attempt to throw a stone;
No point
blaming others,
The fault is
always your own.
The easiest way to deal with
failure or try and gain success is scapegoating. Our success is our own and the
failure is owing to someone else. But blaming others for our problems and
misgivings is unjust, cruel and unfair to others and to ourselves.
You see it all around you.
Parents who blame the children for failed marriages, children who blame parents
for their problems and failures. Then you also find bosses who blame their
subordinates and subordinates who denunciate their superiors.
The biggest damage scapegoating
does is to our soul and to our life, not to others. Do not look for a scapegoat
to blame all your problems and failures on. Instead look inward, find out what
is the cause of the problem, acknowledge your failures, seek help and ask for
forgiveness.
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